The Three B's

This week has been an excellent week. Firstly we decided that we are going to start trying for a baby next year as soon as we have got married and perhaps start the necessary testing beforehand in April as we are planning to do egg sharing ivf, if T is accepted on to the program. If not, financially we will have to try IUI instead. T is definitely hopefully going to carry the first baby, as she is 3 years older. I am happy to wait my turn :) It is very exciting. Life is too short and I want as much time with our children as possible, as working in a hospice has really showed me how you never know what is round the corner and how family are the thing that matters most in this life and are the one thing that are with us until the end of time. Not how many bedrooms our house has. I shared a bedroom with either my sister and at times my brother and sister until I was 11 and I had the best childhood ever. We also lived in a caravan in my grandparents backyard until I was 7. We will be living in a lovely 2 bed by the time our baby is old enough to care anyway. For the first year until we leave London and try for baby number 2, he can bunk up in our room :D

We also have booked our honeymoon, which is awesome as we have spent weeks trying to figure out where to go and how much money to spend etc. Our ideas varied from an all inclusive 2 weeks in mexico to a caravan in Cornwall. We really want to keep costs down so we can afford the IVF! In the end we have opted for a middle ground and are hiring a villa on the coast in Sardinia and hiring a car to drive around the Island. It looks gorgeous. The beaches are white and the sea is crystal clear. It is costing us £950 for the villa, flights and hire car. Pretty reasonable really as it has a jacuzzi overlooking the sea and everything and it is also private so we will be able to relax better.

Going for a week also means we can fit in going to the fertility clinic and a couple of nights in Paris in to our 2 weeks annual leave. We are not taking more time off to allow for baby making days off. While we would love to get pregnant on our first go, we are being realistic and anticipating more of a journey.

The three b's have also thus commenced this week. BRIDAL. BEACH. BABY diet! We are on a definite health kick now so that we are in optimum shape to give ourselves the best chance. We have swapped cake for fruit and the sofa for long walks. We r also gonna start playing tennis and swimming :) I am pretty sure cake will worm itself in occasionally, but so long as we keep focused then I am sure we will get there. Damn BMI charts. We went on a lovely 4 mile round trip walk into Greenwich last night and rewarded ourselves with a starbucks when we got there :) It is well worth the walk for both the coffee and the amazing view of Canary Wharf

Lastly I am starting my new job on Monday. This is quite terrifying but also very exciting. Gone are my student days. I am so glad to be in the adult world now even if I lose my student discount :)

I AM GONNA BE A TOTAL BREAD WINNER

This is what I am looking at whenever I want chocolate (mmmm)

I can't wait x x x

The other side.

I am not really one to discuss my feelings, or show them, but H managed to crash through all my defences and actually open up about my feelings and my future plans. She has been nothing but wholeheartedly supportive in every decision I have made and I'm incredibly grateful to have her in my life.

Meeting her was actually the best decision ever. We met briefly on a dating website, I say brief, it was within 24 hours and we had already decided to meet in person. I guess something made us gravitate towards each other constantly. And now I can't really imagine ever being apart. 

I may not be the the typical girl in planning weddings but i am so excited about the day I get to call her my wife. Scary, exciting, can't actually wait. 
   
There are so many things that I want for our life, and its amazing how I've found someone who feels the same. <3 
  
T
  

Shitty looking blog

T thinks our blog looks lame. How dare she. I spent a good 5 minutes on the template. She is a techno geek so is going to revamp it at some point. I look forwards to seeing the pimping. I am not sure if I lack the skill or the arsedness. Probably both. I am sure I could master the art though. I am soooo excited that it is October. I love Autumn. I love the colours. I love walking along the Thames with coats and gloves with coffee. I love Halloween, bonfire day and awaiting December so we can put up decorations and wander around Christmas markets and winter wonderland at Hyde park. I also can't wait to see the Snowman at the theatre and go to the carol service at St Paul. Bring on Autumn and Winter. I also love cuddling up on the sofa with a good book and hearty food. Mmmmm.